12 April 2015

Holding The Man

As a gay man of the 80's I remember vivdly there was almost a moment in the early 80's when suddenly the parties stopped and everything got very serious. That moment was the realisation that AIDS was not just a remote disease that only affected Americans, but was spreading worldwide. And that moment is encapsulated vividly in the abrupt change of pace in Holding The Man between the first and second halves of this story of the love of two Australian men.
In 1972 John and Tim first meet at High School. From then on they are destined to be together. Unfortunately Tim's gay sexual awareness is the opposite of John's 'jock' straightness. Reluctantly John falls for Tim and they start on their passionate journey together.
By 1983 even Australia was starting to experience the cold hand of AIDS-related deaths as Tim continues his drama studies in Sydney, apart from Tim. By 1985 the boys are back together but, in the face of growing concerns about the impact of AIDS, they decide to get tested. They are both positive. John dies in 1992 and Tim follows in 1994.
This evening of theatrical emotion is cleverly paced in two distinct halves. Part one is fun, light, uplifting. Before AIDS the gay community was partying hard to celebrate the decriminalisation of homosexuality in most civilised countries. This is reflected in the way that the characters rush from one experience to another, desperate to wring every ounce of enjoyment out of every single hour.
Part two, just like us in the 80's, drops into an abyss of gloom and seriousness. The spectre of death hung over us all like a Sword of Damocles. Who would be the next victim? But even amongst the despair, as in real life, there are comic moments, uplifting signs that a smile can be just around the corner.
By the end of the evening the audience is wrung out and there is no dry eye in the house. The small cast have played dozens, if not more, characters and are obviously as emotionally drained as us.
This production should be compulsory viewing for all people under 30. Those who are lucky enough to be growing up in a time when AIDS is no longer a death sentance should see this and realise how terrible it was and why safe sex should still be a priority
© Paul Towers 18/5/2010

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